BEFORE 13
The Foundation Course Every Parent Needs Before Their Child Becomes a Teenager
Before 13
Your pass to raising a peaceful, confident teenager—and keeping your relationship strong all the way through
You don’t have to brace for war just because your child is turning 13.
You don’t have to become a control freak, walk on eggshells, or constantly fear disconnection.
What you do before they turn 13 shapes what happens after.
That journey starts now.
Imagine This:
You’re not dreading the teenage years.
You’re prepared.
Your pre-teen understands who they are, feels safe coming to you, and doesn’t shrink or shut down when things get tough.
You’re not walking on eggshells—you’re walking in partnership.
Truth Bomb: Most Parents
Miss the Curve
They wake up one day and say:
“What happened to my child?”
And by then, the shift has already happened.
This isn’t drama. This is data. This is real.
The ages 10 to 12 are the most overlooked, most critical developmental years of a child’s journey—and most parents don’t even realize the curve until they’ve missed it.
Common Mistakes that Lead to
Disconnection
- “My child is a good child.”
- “That parent must have done something wrong.”
- “What’s worked till now will still work going forward.”
- “More control = more respect.”
All false.
And all costly.
The Good News?
10–12 is your greatest opportunity.
The brain, emotions, values, and voice of your child are all shifting.
This is your moment to shape the foundation for the next 7 years—before hormones, peer pressure, and the search for identity fully take root.
This is the most comprehensive course you’ll find to help you:
- Transition your pre-teen into adolescence with confidence
- Build a peaceful, connected relationship
- And avoid the emotional chaos most parents go through
Inside BEFORE 13, You’ll Learn:
Module 1: The Parenting Audit
Unlearn myths. Identify blind spots. Understand what you need to shift before anything else.
Module 2: Inside the 10–12s (For Your Pre-Teen)
Understand what your child is experiencing emotionally, socially, cognitively, and spiritually—and how to support them.
Module 3: Inside the 10–12s (For You)
The key decisions, postures, and role shifts you must embrace during this phase.
Module 4: Clean Transitions
What a smooth transition into the teen years actually looks like—and how to create it.
Module 5: Real Influence
How to build a relationship based on influence, not fear. Learn to lead from connection, not control.
Module 6: 13-Ready
How to prepare yourself (and your child) for what’s coming next—before it arrives.
Bonuses
- Choosing the Right School for Your Pre-Teen
- How to Make the School System Work for You
- Exclusive 1:1 Session with Coach Fola
You May Be Wondering... “Do I really need this?”
You tell me:
Are you seeing subtle changes in your child already?
Has their tone, confidence, or independence started to shift?
Do you want to build a relationship that grows with your child, not against them?
Then yes—you do.
Because catch-up parenting is hard.
And avoidable.
Why This Matters Now
The teenage years are often painted as wild, moody, and conflict-ridden.
But they don’t have to be.
The truth is: peace starts before 13.
That’s when identity, values, and relational trust are formed. That’s when your child needs the best of you not your fear, guilt, or guesswork.
This Course Is For You If...
- You have a child between 10–12
- You want a peaceful, strategic relationship—not a reactive one
- You don’t want to wait until “something happens” to start learning
- You believe parenting should be led with wisdom, not control
- You want your child to be emotionally healthy, self-aware, and value-driven
Course Includes:
- 6 Modules (Video + Worksheets)
- Full Parenting Audit Framework
- Real-Life Tools, Prompts, and Practice Exercises
- Bonus School Prep Resources
- Optional 1:1 Session with Coach Fola
- Lifetime Access
Your Investment
₦XX,000 / $XX
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Payment plan available
Or book a pre-enrollment call to see if it’s right for you.
Coming Soon: 10 Going on 13
The perfect companion to Before 13, this course is built for your child—to give them tools for confidence, identity, and resilience before the teen years begin.
Enroll in one or both. Together, they make your parenting transformation complete.